10 Random Things About My Wkend


  1. Went to my mom’s house to eat some free food!!
  2. Said yes, to joining my friend in a 3K walk for Suicide Prevention event.
  3. I Love Him!!
  4. Never seen him so upset, he needed to vent and I was a listening ear.
  5. I swear us mother’s make money stretch!! I did that at Wal-Mart.
  6. Tried to get the little tater off the bottle.
  7. The walk was enlightening, you never know someone’s story until your equip enough to listen.
  8. The after work conversation was even more interesting. We never know what can affect our kids, we need to do better. Raise our girls to be women and men to be men.
  9. Made Sunday dinner.
  10. Wrote a 3 page letter to encourage him.

What’s Your Flavor?




Saw here and had to share…. enjoy!!! :)

Music Mondays: Ask of You

This song goes out to my love!!!

Kissin’ you is not enough for me
You know I’m a big boy, and big boys have desires
Makin’ love is what I want to do
But I need a true friend to make me come together

Just give me all your lovin’ (All your love)
Girl, I’ll do all the rubbin’
(I want to kiss you right there)
That’s all I ask of you
(Just stand right there, little girl)
I’ll kiss you anywhere (Anywhere)
Yes, love, even there
(Especially there and there)
That’s all I ask of you
(That’s all I ask of you)

 Raphael Saadiq – Ask Of You Lyrics | MetroLyrics



Flashback Fridays: Living Single




I still love this show re-runs and all, LOL. I can watch this show as if I have never seen it!!! Loved Sinclair James and Overton Wakefield Jones characters the most!!Mines was when Max and Khadijah James went on that retreat, and she realized all her past lives she was a man. And she realized that she only was a woman in this life to have a baby. Lord knows she ended up pregnant with Kyle’s baby.

 Who was your favorite character? And what was your favorite episode?

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Let me just say I know way too many females who are in abusive relationships!! That’s saying a lot. Many of us grew up watching our mothers in these types of relationships and some how continued this cycle.

With my life I broke that cycle, but was in a relationship where I was emotionally abused. After losing grip on reality and I left it alone and haven’t looked back. I recently lost a dear friend of mines because I refused to accept her man as my friend. How can I except someone who harmed this friend of mines as if it was okay?

Growing up I saw the signs, so in my dating pattern I’ve always watched out for these signs: isolation from loved ones and friends, outburst of anger and controlling behaviour.




Its said that women get programmed into staying. Some do it for the kids, but in reality all you’re doing allowing the kids to see this and having them think its normal or okay and it’s not. I pray for anyone in this situation, I pray that you are able to find your way out and get help. Love doesn’t hurt!!


Again love should not hurt!!

10 Random Things About My Wkend



1. Friday I had plans but the rain stopped that!
2. Saturday, took the divas out to get their costumes.
3. Had a dream I became a peacemaker to a friend of mines and his drama!

4. Fussed my sis out for taking my son out and leaving his diaper bag at home.
5. Bought some dvds
6. My daughter left me and came back Monday
7. Had a fight dream… not good

8. Got mad and talked things out now we are good. Communication is key!
9. Got sucker into babysitting.
10. Let’s just say it was funny babysitting! LOL 2 boys…HA!