Flashback Fridays: Living Single




I still love this show re-runs and all, LOL. I can watch this show as if I have never seen it!!! Loved Sinclair James and Overton Wakefield Jones characters the most!!Mines was when Max and Khadijah James went on that retreat, and she realized all her past lives she was a man. And she realized that she only was a woman in this life to have a baby. Lord knows she ended up pregnant with Kyle’s baby.

 Who was your favorite character? And what was your favorite episode?

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Let me just say I know way too many females who are in abusive relationships!! That’s saying a lot. Many of us grew up watching our mothers in these types of relationships and some how continued this cycle.

With my life I broke that cycle, but was in a relationship where I was emotionally abused. After losing grip on reality and I left it alone and haven’t looked back. I recently lost a dear friend of mines because I refused to accept her man as my friend. How can I except someone who harmed this friend of mines as if it was okay?

Growing up I saw the signs, so in my dating pattern I’ve always watched out for these signs: isolation from loved ones and friends, outburst of anger and controlling behaviour.




Its said that women get programmed into staying. Some do it for the kids, but in reality all you’re doing allowing the kids to see this and having them think its normal or okay and it’s not. I pray for anyone in this situation, I pray that you are able to find your way out and get help. Love doesn’t hurt!!


Again love should not hurt!!

10 Random Things About My Wkend



1. Friday I had plans but the rain stopped that!
2. Saturday, took the divas out to get their costumes.
3. Had a dream I became a peacemaker to a friend of mines and his drama!

4. Fussed my sis out for taking my son out and leaving his diaper bag at home.
5. Bought some dvds
6. My daughter left me and came back Monday
7. Had a fight dream… not good

8. Got mad and talked things out now we are good. Communication is key!
9. Got sucker into babysitting.
10. Let’s just say it was funny babysitting! LOL 2 boys…HA!

Music “Mondays”: Emotion


Yes I realize it’s Tuesday… but I had a paid day off with kids so hush!! :) Anyways, I love, love love this song!!!

Poetry Spotlight: “She”

She touched me in places I had long forgotten
places long forgotten-
places sworn off to the world and called love.
She was gentle, kind and had patience-
the patience of a love also lost.
She was peaceful, attentive and had the playful innocence of a child.
She soothed me and calmed my spirit-
she was my peace of mind and my shelter from the storm.
She saved me from myself and was a gatekeeper-
she held my secrets, my weaknesses and some of my deepest laughs.
She was open, exposed and open to the challenge that is me.
The connection carnal, vulgar and explosive-
it tickled, tormented and satisfied.
She terrified me, because with pleasure finds pain.
She waited.
She waited for me to meet her there-
she waited for me to come to her-
open, honest and exposed-
full of scars, full of fear-
full of her.
She loved me-
for me.
beyond me.
in spite of me.
through me.
over me.


This poem comes from my home girl: Enigma check out her blog Peace In Words!! She is an extremely talented chica, she has short story series and much more!! Thanks for sharing your poetic words to my followers!!


Music Monday: Flyest Gangstas f/ AZ


Haven’t heard this song in a while, turned my laptop on and was listening to music and this song came on… I already had in my music player. LOL… rocked out and yes I still know the lyrics!!